There is so much struggle and pain that we go through each and every day. So much of confusion. So many decisions yet to make. Having no idea about what the future holds for us…we’re just running and rowing our boats and flying our planes.
It’s not just you or it’s not just me. We all are struggling to keep up with the ongoings. We all are. And that’s what makes us similar. Our struggles are exactly what make us similar.
Isn’t that a reason to why we should accept each other and everybody without any judgement? Because we have something so much in common. We all struggle. We all play different roles in different wars.
Maybe the one you think is too proud of himself is just another soul who’s had enough from everybody around him. Maybe the one you think doesn’t know how to socialize is just another being who understands the importance of not getting into any kind of ‘drama’. Maybe the one you think doesn’t know how to dress properly is just somebody who’s looking for someone who notices her inner beauty and not the way she looks.
We’re all fighting wars. Some are fighting them with others and some with themselves.
There’s no place we can hide. No place we can escape to. Like it or not, you have to go through it all. And, that is the reason why we need to be kind to one another. We need to understand it’s not just us. We’re all sailing in the same boat.
We get frustrated because things don’t get along with us and procedures don’t seem to be as smooth. But what do we do? Do we act patiently? Are we perseverant in these situations? To be honest, the answer is no. We act in an extremely strange and unacceptable manner and we know that. This is exactly when we fail to understand that what we do does not only affect us but it affects each and everybody around us. We don’t realize that if we are in tough situations, they are too and our showing them our anger makes the situation worse for them.
Caution! Our bad mood is highly contagious.
I don’t know what the future holds for me. Nobody does. But, I do know that whatever it will be, will be for good and that I will be able to get through the testing times and all the phases just like I always have.
And so will you be able to.
Trust. Have faith. Love.
With much love,